Performance Anxiety vs. Physical Erectile Dysfunction: How to Tell the Difference

Erectile difficulties can be frustrating. When you are unable to hold an erection, it could either be a psychological episode or something could be physically wrong with you. You really are not able to tell the difference. So, who would you visit, a therapist or a doctor?

You’re not alone in this dilemma. The physical and psychological are so well intertwined that it’s almost impossible to separate the two. Anxiety triggers physical symptoms, and the presence of physical symptoms causes anxiety. The chicken-or-egg situation often blinds at the beginning. Where did it all start?

Here are some self-diagnostic tips that can help you tell the difference between psychological and physical symptoms.

Self-Identification

Ruling Out The Obvious

The easiest way to determine whether your ED is due to physical symptoms or mental stress is to check whether you can achieve an erection when you masturbate, when you wake up, or when you get an erection at random times. If so, you are most likely struggling with your partner. In this case, psychology is playing a major role in the dysfunction. The physical is functioning, but the context points towards relationship dynamics, mental disturbance, and anxiety.

Gradual or Sudden

Check if the onset of the problem was after a stressful event or a poor sexual experience. It could happen that you are in a new relationship or are undergoing a major life-altering event. All these suggest psychological causes. The body was apparently fine until either of these events occurred. If the decline was gradual over time, it could be that a physical factor has affected you, especially if it is followed by low libido or less firm erections, or if you have been affected by another health issue.

Consistency

If erections fail in certain situations or when you change partners (Where you get an erection with one partner but not with the other), it points to a psychological symptom. Physical ED is non-prejudiced. It doesn’t matter who you are with. In this case, you are checking for situational triggers.  

Overall Health

Chances are, your cardiovascular health has been affected. Vascular problems often crop up with ED before they show up as heart symptoms. This is because the blood vessels are smaller in the penis than those in the heart.  The risk factors also include diabetes, high blood pressure, being overweight, high cholesterol, heavy smoking and drinking, a sedentary lifestyle and being over the age of 50. You will require medical attention regardless of psychological factors if you have several cardiovascular risks and ED that is gradually worsening.

Medications

Erections can also be affected by certain medications. These could include meds for blood pressure, including older ones like beta-blockers, antidepressants with SSRIs, antihistamines, and anxiety meds, all of which are contributors to physical ED. You must, however, speak to your doctor if you must stop any medications.

Performance Anxiety

• A big trigger, performance anxiety, has a cycle:
• The first failure is triggered by stress, fatigue or alcohol, and nothing is obvious.
• The next time, the failures start creating a pattern of worry.
• During another encounter, the worry interferes with arousal.
• Fear and anxiety are confirmed when there is additional failure.
• The cycle repeats itself and keeps intensifying.
• The fear of failure evolves into the cause of failure. This is also the trademark of performance anxiety. Your mind seems to get in the way, even if your body is capable.

Signs of Anxiety

• When things seem to get to intercourse, erection (which otherwise begins well) fades away.
• Self-evaluation and a consistent prediction of failure: your mind races with these thoughts.
• There’s a lot of physical tension, and you are unable to relax; you hold your breath, clench your muscles, etc.
• When this pressure is removed, your erection returns; this is when the pressure to perform is removed
• In newer situations or with new partners, your ED tends to get worse.
• When anxiety is reduced after a drink or two, you feel better.

Patterns of Physical ED

ED, with physical symptoms, looks different. Their causes are also related to diabetes, neurological conditions, vascular disease, effects of medications, low testosterone, post-surgery, etc.

• You have erection difficulty across all contexts, whether with partners, alone or even in the morning.
• Erection quality gradually declines over time.
• There are fewer morning erections, and they also become less spontaneous.
• Besides, the erections seem softer than usual.
• Fatigue, weight gain, reduced libido, and other associated physical symptoms are noticed.

The Reality

Unfortunately, ED is not completely psychological or physical. It is a combination of the two. Anxiety piles up on the physical component. When a man sees that his erections are not what they used to be, he could start worrying about it, which makes matters worse. That is why it is a physical and a psychological issue. Pure psychological ED can bring about anxiety and create a physiological interference. This causes chronic stress, which in turn affects the nervous system, blood flow and hormones. That is why the treatment is not about determining the single cause but about understanding the combination of factors involved and addressing them accordingly. 

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About the Author

Mike Wood

Mike began his lifelong passion to help increase health and performance with a Kinesiology degree from Laurentian University in 1988. For most of his career he was in electronic manufacturing, but he always remained true to his physiology educational roots. While working in the corporate world, he trained and worked as an Emergency Medical Responder. He also spent several years teaching First Aid and CPR in both full and part-time roles.

Mike's introduction to UrogenED's Pulse Acoustic Wave technology happened at the end of 2023 when he was treated to alleviate his Peyronie's Disease. In early 2024 his entrepreneurial spirit was then married with his positive treatment outcome from UrogenED and he opened the Whitby Clinic. Towards the end of 2024 Mike was given the opportunity to open the Barrie UrogenED Clinic to complement the success story that began in Whitby. It is Mike's greatest pleasure to hear the success stories of clients from both clinics.

Mike is dedicating his career to Men's Health concerns not only limited to ED. A self-diagnosed fitness and sports junkie, Mike can be found running the roads around his house and exercising in the gym. During his downtime you will find him on the golf links in the summer or snowboarding with his family in the winter.